Butts and Lips - Does it matter what you fuck?
  • I've thought of this a few times. Women and men share very different sexual organs, but we're in a different age now where sex has broaded to include oral and anal methods of sexual pleasure.

    The funny thing is, both women and men both have lips and share the same lip muscles. Also, men and women both share the same rear end hole. The muscle in both ends a type of contracting and stretching muscle.

    In all reality, if you closed your eyes and someone started sucking your dick, it would feel the same if it was done by a women or a man. It's just lips sucking on your dick, they're the same muscles on the man and woman.

    Anal makes things a little more complicated; if your eyes were closed and someone inserted your dick into their asshole, however awkward that might be, in the absene of hair and his balls touching your leg, you might not be able to tell if you were fucking a man's ass or a woman's ass. Same muscles being penetrated.

    Once in a while, I look on Craigslist to see all the people posting in the personals section. Once in a while I see a guy who is a man advertising that he wants to suck a dick. I can't help but think "They're just lips, it'd probably feel the same if a beautiful woman was sucking on it."

    So what do you think? Is it really the same? Don't say "No, it's gay" without really thinking about what the muscles do and what would happen if your eyes are closed. In the end, does it really matter whose munching on your dick?
  • I would have to say, and speaking from zero experience, that the person you are doing it with has something to do with your enjoyment of it. Surely being attracted to the person...... doing their thing with you would help with enjoying it?
  • I agree with Chip: it has to do with who you're doing it with.
  • You guys are wrong. Very wrong.

    Sex does not require intimacy in any means. You arent being intimate when you jack yourself off to cheerleader porn every other night. You arent attracted to your hand when you make passionate love to it. When you have actual lips sucking on that rock hard bone of yours, there's no deny you wont be enjoying it.

    Even when you're giving yourself "the low five" you're thinking about someone better who could be giving it to you. This is the same case if a dude is blowing your dick. You don't need to be looking at the guy, you just need to think about that playboy bunny munching on your cock.

    Think about what a glory hole does; it's annoymous body parts going in and being played with. I bet you can have a lot of fun with those things, and I'd bet usually the person on the other side of that wall is someone with the same sexual equipment that you have.

    You guys havent convinced me. I still think it wouldn't be any different if I had some man-whore off craigslist pump my cock up or some skanky drunk chick who thinks I'm Jim Gaffigan. All I need is the right frame of mine and I'm bricking in that persons mouth, no matter what's hanging between their legs.

    Sorry fells, try again.
  • you are correct that if you cant see the person and you are having anal or oral then you might not be able to tell the difference. one thing is that me personally i dont like anal because it feels like regular sex with the condom but i had a girlfriend that liked it so i did it a few times for her. as for oral i just cant get off on it anyway, i need to be in control during sex, dont get me wrong i love it but it isnt gonna give me an orgasm unless i am really horny.
    anyway
    "the thing is i can see" and i like seeing a pretty women when im having sex. more importantly i can still smell things and men and women have (usually) very distinctive smells. if i smelled another dude while having my knob bobbed by a stranger i dont think i would lay back and do nothing. you also didnt mention about religion, most religions frown on gay sex so even if it was enjoyed they wouldnt want to do it.

    the question is what are you trying to prove? are you rationalizing that gay sex is no different than non vaginal sex?
    i think thats why the term making love got started, because its more than just stimulating your junk. but if you are talking about just lips on your pole then there is still a mental aspect involved. if you are blindfolded and someone is going at it on you, if you are thinking about your taxes and that accident you got into last week you wont be enjoying it as much as you would if you were thinking about the person you love or lust.
  • Fuzzy said:
    You guys havent convinced me. I still think it wouldn't be any different if I had some man-whore off craigslist pump my cock up or some skanky drunk chick who thinks I'm Jim Gaffigan. All I need is the right frame of mine and I'm bricking in that persons mouth, no matter what's hanging between their legs.

    It wouldn't feel any different if you don't let it. Most straight dudes would be too scared that it was a dude with their lips around their junk to enjoy it. Just like a gay dude probably doesn't want to open his eyes and see a girl on his end. However if you persuade them 100% that the gender they are attracted to is gonna do the deed they would probably enjoy it all the same.
  • gilligan said:
    more importantly i can still smell things and men and women have (usually) very distinctive smells. if i smelled another dude while having my knob bobbed by a stranger i dont think i would lay back and do nothing.


    That's probably the smartest thing posted in this thread. You are very correct. Women do have different smells than men.

    Regardless, I'm ready to pose the question: If someone walked up to you on the street and said "You have won a free blow job. It's 100% guaranteed healthy, completely annonymous, and you wont even see the person whose sucking your dick," would you take it? More than that, do you think you could tell the difference? If in the case of a glory hole, where the other side of the wall could block off smells, would you let yourself get a great blow job knowing there's a 50% chance that another man is waiting on the other side of the wall, ready to slobber on your shaft?
  • Yes, I think there is a difference for the same reasons as Chip, and Slix. If you want to be convinced, then test it and report back to us.

    As response to your question: No, I would not accept a free blow job in this situation. It sounds like the shadiest thing in the world. It reminds me of a street surgeon who promises that they have an excellent success rate.
  • Well I don't want my daily visits to the ole hole in the stall to be any surprises, so yes, it matters.
  • Fuzzy said:
    I've thought of this a few times. whose munching on your dick?


    GOD DAM Fuzzy u are making me laugh so hard today its unreal
    anyway unto ur question i think that sexual experience would come into play and your brain. you may not think its as good as it is because your not attracted to the person, in relation to mouth and ass yea im sure it would feel the same if you took out all the other factors but if you that hard up why dont you try it out (prob not with someone off Craigslist)

    Fuzzy said:
    You guys are wrong. Very wrong. Sex does not require intimacy in any means. Sorry fells, try again.


    A point to this one it does differ if you are attracted to the person, that is from personal experience.
    A wank from yourself is different to someone doing it to you, which again is different to someone doing it to you when you want them to.
    Hormones etc will all come into play.

    SO my final point is that its not the gender that would make it different fuzzy it is human chemistry plus experience.

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